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MY STORY

I thought I lacked willpower.

Then I began differently.

Early in perimenopause, I had gained around 40 pounds.

I wanted to lose weight and get back in shape.

It was not my first attempt.

I had started before. Then stopped. More than once.

When I saw a woman who ran regularly or went to the gym, my explanation was simple: she was more disciplined than I was.

Walking shoes and a dog on a trail
One walk. Then another. Illustration.

Then I started walking.

Not to create a method.

Not with a three-year plan.

I simply wanted to start moving again.

So I walked.

Then I did it again.

And I kept going.

Little by little, I stopped seeing only what I still could not do.

I also began to see what I was already succeeding at.

I was proud. I felt more capable. And I began to want to go further.

My starting point did not become my destination.

Today, at almost 50, I still walk and I work out at the gym four times a week.

I like becoming strong.

But the important part is not the gym.

The important part is that I probably never would have started there.

There was a path between the woman who was starting to walk again and the woman who would one day enjoy training.

I wanted to understand that path.

Why was this time different?

Why had I kept going when I had stopped before?

I am an investigator by profession, so I turned to research on behavior change and physical activity.

I found research on successful experiences, self-efficacy, planning, repetition, and maintaining physical activity.

My personal story is not scientific proof.

It gave me a question.

Research helped me better understand what might explain my experience.

Début grew from there.

I do not want you to copy my path.

You do not have to walk as much as I did.

You do not have to go to the gym.

You do not have to want the same destination.

What I hope is that you find your starting point, then discover what it can become.

I knew where I was beginning. I did not yet know what I would become capable of doing.

Here’s to our strength.Maeve